{"id":103,"date":"2023-04-26T18:33:55","date_gmt":"2023-04-27T01:33:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/giuliascapstone.wordpress.com\/?page_id=103"},"modified":"2023-05-08T21:10:19","modified_gmt":"2023-05-08T21:10:19","slug":"val-blah-blah-blah","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/index.php\/val-blah-blah-blah\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>VAL ON SEX POSITIVITY, TRANS FETISHIZATION, AND THE SOCIAL CURRENCY OF RELATIONSHIPS<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Val likes to joke that she&#8217;s been able to date every type of human being on the planet. As a bisexual trans woman, she feels like she&#8217;s pretty much covered all bases.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Perhaps this is what&#8217;s allowed her to develop an uncommonly optimistic outlook on modern dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s easy to be cynical about what dating apps and social media have done to romance. And while Val recognizes some of the pitfalls of contemporary courtship, there&#8217;s also no denying there&#8217;s been a lot<em> <\/em>of headway.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"731\" height=\"984\" src=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.39.14-pm-1.jpeg?w=731\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-228\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.39.14-pm-1.jpeg 731w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.39.14-pm-1-223x300.jpeg 223w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 731px) 100vw, 731px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">SEX<strong><em> POSITIVITY<\/em><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t think any other generation thinks of love and relationships as openly as we do,&#8221; said Val. &#8220;Our generation&#8217;s just going for it. I love it. It&#8217;s something we&#8217;re doing right.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Val has seen many of the people she&#8217;s dated deconstruct their ideas of sexuality and gender. &#8220;People now are stepping out of their comfort zones and doing things that have become less stigmatized.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"774\" height=\"1116\" src=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.15-pm-edited.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.15-pm-edited.jpeg 774w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.15-pm-edited-208x300.jpeg 208w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.15-pm-edited-710x1024.jpeg 710w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.15-pm-edited-768x1107.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 774px) 100vw, 774px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-black-color has-text-color has-background is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-f88984d1 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"background-color:#f9f9f9;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding-top:7vw;padding-bottom:7vw\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\" style=\"font-size:1.1rem;line-height:1.5\"><em>&#8220;I&#8217;m a very sex positive person. I think that as long as you&#8217;re dong it safely and as long as it&#8217;s between two consenting adults and everyone&#8217;s on the same page&#8230; go for it! It&#8217;s fun! It&#8217;s a beautiful thing, it&#8217;s a human thing.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\" style=\"font-size:0.9375rem;line-height:1.6\">Val D\u00edaz<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, discussions of sexual freedom today often look very different than they did thirty years ago. &#8220;As goes the fate for many feminist victories,&#8221; said Roberson, &#8220;Patriarchal society is able to warp sexual freedom for women into sexual accessibility for men\u2014often without regard to consent.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">TRANS <strong><em>FETISHIZATION<\/em><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/fetishes-val.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&#8220;Apps have been my main avenue for dating, mainly because it&#8217;s easier for me to disclose the fact that I&#8217;m trans. They allow me to have access to people in a way that makes me physically safe, because in person, people often don&#8217;t take it well, and sometimes they can even get violent.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<cite>Val D\u00edaz<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"706\" height=\"1026\" src=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.38-pm-edited.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.38-pm-edited.jpeg 706w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.38-pm-edited-206x300.jpeg 206w, https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/screen-shot-2023-04-26-at-4.38.38-pm-edited-705x1024.jpeg 705w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 706px) 100vw, 706px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">SOCIAL<strong><em> CURRENCY<\/em><\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@corashircel\/video\/7121790777541299499\" data-video-id=\"7121790777541299499\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@corashircel\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@corashircel?refer=embed\">@corashircel<\/a> <p>I do this because its fun okay. Also your DMs and reactions are my favorite <a title=\"greenscreen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/greenscreen?refer=embed\">#greenscreen<\/a> <a title=\"greenscreenvideo\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/greenscreenvideo?refer=embed\">#greenscreenvideo<\/a> <a title=\"ShowUrGrillSkillz\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/ShowUrGrillSkillz?refer=embed\">#ShowUrGrillSkillz<\/a> <a title=\"FilmTeyvatIslands\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/FilmTeyvatIslands?refer=embed\">#FilmTeyvatIslands<\/a> <a title=\"softlaunch\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/softlaunch?refer=embed\">#softlaunch<\/a> <a title=\"softlaunching\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/softlaunching?refer=embed\">#softlaunching<\/a> <a title=\"relationship\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationship?refer=embed\">#relationship<\/a><\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - bestspedup\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7067654186519169797?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; bestspedup<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>In 2015, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/internet\/2015\/10\/01\/social-media-and-romantic-relationships\/\">Pew Research Center<\/a> conducted a study among teens in relationships. One of their main findings was that teens often find social media is inextricably tied with their relationships. Pew dubbed this &#8216;The Publicness Paradox&#8217;: many teens use social media to publicly express affection for their partner, even as they feel their relationships are too visible to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Young people today are walking through this meta-virtual reality world,&#8221; said Roberson. &#8220;They&#8217;re not just living moments, they&#8217;re <em>planning<\/em> moments to look back on them.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But Gen-Z are acutely aware of how social media has affected their worldview.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Regarding relationships, specifically, many feel like it has made romance feel like a performance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Our generation&#8217;s constantly thinking &#8216;how can I make my relationship increase my social capital?&#8221; said Val. &#8220;And I think that&#8217;s weird as hell.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/social-currency-val.mp3\"><\/audio><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">&lt;&lt;&lt;BACK TO <a href=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/index.php\/can-men-and-women-be-friends-is-the-ick-real-and-other-questions-that-plague-alisa-wu\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"52\"><strong><em>ALISA&#8217;S STORY<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">OR<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-right\">READ<strong><em> <a href=\"https:\/\/ascjcapstone.com\/spring-2023\/gorsenig\/index.php\/424-2\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"424\">THE CONCLUSION<\/a>&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>VAL ON SEX POSITIVITY, TRANS FETISHIZATION, AND THE SOCIAL CURRENCY OF RELATIONSHIPS Val likes to joke that she&#8217;s been able to date every type of human being on the planet. 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